Always Worth It

“He doesn’t just make promises to you; he is present with you in all his power, grace, and glory, so that you can have peace of heart, purpose and direction, and courage to face your parenting day.” Paul David Tripp

Some days, many days, I need flat-out GUTS to face my parenting day. It’s an ongoing test in patience and selflessness. It’s a minute by minute, hour by hour kind of process.

The sweetest moments are often, inexplicably, followed by some of the most challenging ones. It’s full of unexpected twists and turns, unpredictable, and full of surprises.

It’s beautiful and messy and glorious and hard and worth it. Always worth it.

the One

I came here with nothing
But all you have given me.

If I haven’t yet, let me make it abundantly clear. ALL of this is because of Jesus. The trip, the fun, the success, the friendships, the rewards, the perks, the confidence, the hope, the passion...all of it comes from the One who saved me and continues to save me every single day.

I can not pretend that I am responsible for this. It was HIS power, His peace, His strength, His grace, His blessings, His unmerited favor, His blood, His forgiveness, His resurrection.

I am not a supermom, but he is the super God.

Jesus you’re still enough.
Keep me within your love.

Parenting with Him

“There is nothing more important to consistent, faithful, patient, loving, and effective parenting than to understand what God has given you in the grace of His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ.” Paul David Tripp

Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family

This book👆🏼is a game-changer. I thought parenting would just come naturally. It’s all I ever wanted to do, so I assumed I would be pretty darn good at it (not to brag or anything 🙄).

As it turns out, parenting does not just “come natural”. Also breaking news, I am not that good at it.

Parenting takes a crazy amount of intention, discipline, focus, sacrifice, surrender, humility, brokenness, patience, self-control, and all the things DAILY.

I am not good at ALL of those things everyday. I am not good enough to parent these sweet babies. I am absolutely inadequate. Realizing THAT has changed everything.

I am inadequate, but He is not. Knowing how much I desperately need His grace helps me pour out to my children the same grace they so desperately need.

This book, ya’ll. Seriously. 💙

Neverland

If growing up means it would be beneath my dignity to climb a tree, I’ll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up! Not me!”
~Peter Pan

Summer kind of feels like Neverland these days and I am obsessed. May my four little Peter Pans never grow up.

Grateful for "My Thing"

I struggled after having my first three babies. I quickly became overwhelmed by motherhood, losing myself in the process, and frankly, not enjoying those first few months and years the way I should have.

Tessa was my first Beachbody baby. And it's the first time in those postpartum months that I didn't feel like I was going to die. It's the first time I didn't completely lose who I was. And it's the first time I was able to REST in motherhood, instead of STRIVE.

And maybe it's because she was our fourth child, or maybe it's because we had done TWINS the last time (and it's probably both of those things). But I also think it's because she was my first Beachbody baby. Because I had my THING, motherhood didn't have to be the thing I competed in anymore. Motherhood didn't have to be the thing that measured my successes or failures. Motherhood didn't have to be the thing that I PERFORMED at anymore. It didn't have to be thing where I checked all my boxes.

I had my thing, which gave me the space to just be a mom. And rest in it. And enjoy it. And have fun with it.

I'm so grateful for my thing.
I'm so grateful for the gift of motherhood.

Choose Your Hard

I just finished Brendon Burchard’s “High Performance Habits” week. It was one of those books where you feel totally inspired, totally ready to take on the world, but at the same time, daunted. How am I going to implement everything I’ve learned? How am I going to live up to this?

And then I take a deep breath (literally), and I remember that I don’t need to do it all at once. I can go back to the very first chapter and start there, one step, one chapter, one habit at a time.

The thing is, living your best life, everyday, all the time is overwhelming to think about. But how much better to be a bit overwhelmed in the pursuit of excellence (not perfection), than to be complacent, never moving forward, and living underwhelmed by your life.

Both ways of living are hard.
Choose your hard.

I Am So Lucky

The other day I was picking up Sienna from school, and I had these three wild things with me. The teacher who walked Sienna to the van (yeah, I’m a van-mom and it’s the best decision we’ve ever made), looked inside, smiled, and said...

“OH you have all of them today! You are so lucky.”

And she’s right. I am so dang lucky. But what struck me about what she said is that it’s so different from what most people say when they see me caravanning around town with my little gang.

Most people look at me with pity or laughter and say something like, “Boy, you have your hands full!”

The stares and comments don’t bother me because they’re right. I DO, in fact, have my hands full. And I will take their pity and receive their laughter. Sometimes I feel pretty pitiful and need all the empathy I can get. And sometimes I’m more than happy to be the circus attraction at Target. 🎯

But for this sweet teacher to see me and all my little people in all our messiness and recognize what a GIFT I have been given is something that I have thought about a lot.

I have recalled that moment several times since then...often when I’m frustrated and tired.

I have ALL of them today. I am SO lucky.